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		<title>Comment on Improvements and Suggestions for Endomondo by Landscape Paintings</title>
		<link>http://theboywonder.co.uk/2010/05/26/improvements-and-suggestions-for-endomondo/comment-page-1/#comment-47380</link>
		<dc:creator>Landscape Paintings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 20:36:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your home is valueble for me. Thanks!…</description>
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		<title>Comment on Derby 10K 2011! by theboywonder.co.uk &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Fight Back to Fitness, Part 2 - &#8230; ok, well at least I&#039;m trying.</title>
		<link>http://theboywonder.co.uk/2011/04/03/derby-10k-2011/comment-page-1/#comment-43371</link>
		<dc:creator>theboywonder.co.uk &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Fight Back to Fitness, Part 2 - &#8230; ok, well at least I&#039;m trying.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 20:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] few more running miles in the legs as I wanted to do my second 10K in under 40 minutes. Thankfully I did just that :) I started to look over my training logs and thought about the kinds of rides I&#8217;d done the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] few more running miles in the legs as I wanted to do my second 10K in under 40 minutes. Thankfully I did just that :) I started to look over my training logs and thought about the kinds of rides I&#8217;d done the [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on The fight back to fitness by theboywonder.co.uk &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Fight Back to Fitness, Part 2 - &#8230; ok, well at least I&#039;m trying.</title>
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		<dc:creator>theboywonder.co.uk &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Fight Back to Fitness, Part 2 - &#8230; ok, well at least I&#039;m trying.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 20:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wrote quite some time ago about my attempt to find some fitness after almost 10 years off the bike. This year I think [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wrote quite some time ago about my attempt to find some fitness after almost 10 years off the bike. This year I think [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on SQL Query for WSUS 3 Needed Updates by Dani the girl</title>
		<link>http://theboywonder.co.uk/2010/11/04/sql-query-for-wsus-3-needed-updates/comment-page-1/#comment-40331</link>
		<dc:creator>Dani the girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 01:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A better place to get the values for SummarizationState is the table-valued function PUBLIC_VIEWS.fnUpdateInstallationStateMap() as they don&#039;t guarantee the numbers will stay the same between versions. (I think they&#039;d be crazy to change them, but then again, I&#039;m not the crazy one in this relationship... ;-) )

On my box, &quot;select * from PUBLIC_VIEWS.fnUpdateInstallationStateMap()&quot; gives 

Id	Name
--	----------------------
0	Unknown
1	NotApplicable
2	NotInstalled
3	Downloaded
4	Installed
5	Failed
6	InstalledPendingReboot</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A better place to get the values for SummarizationState is the table-valued function PUBLIC_VIEWS.fnUpdateInstallationStateMap() as they don&#8217;t guarantee the numbers will stay the same between versions. (I think they&#8217;d be crazy to change them, but then again, I&#8217;m not the crazy one in this relationship&#8230; ;-) )</p>
<p>On my box, &#8220;select * from PUBLIC_VIEWS.fnUpdateInstallationStateMap()&#8221; gives </p>
<p>Id	Name<br />
&#8211;	&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
0	Unknown<br />
1	NotApplicable<br />
2	NotInstalled<br />
3	Downloaded<br />
4	Installed<br />
5	Failed<br />
6	InstalledPendingReboot</p>
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		<title>Comment on Improvements and Suggestions for Endomondo by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 10:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some more

1. Access to the raw gps records incl elevation, coords, etc so we can do our own analysis
2. Given the wind, gradient, ride weight, bike type etc- it should be possible to estimate power output at each point and therefore graph it - without a powertap
3. Endomondo should automatically start tracking all movement, not just when you click start.
4. It should let us edit, splice, merge, delete ride sections</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some more</p>
<p>1. Access to the raw gps records incl elevation, coords, etc so we can do our own analysis<br />
2. Given the wind, gradient, ride weight, bike type etc- it should be possible to estimate power output at each point and therefore graph it &#8211; without a powertap<br />
3. Endomondo should automatically start tracking all movement, not just when you click start.<br />
4. It should let us edit, splice, merge, delete ride sections</p>
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		<title>Comment on Improvements and Suggestions for Endomondo by Wazzup</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wazzup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jan 2011 09:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent suggestions !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent suggestions !</p>
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		<title>Comment on Books for the Year by oyster</title>
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		<dc:creator>oyster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 01:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha. You know I was born on the same day at Kerouac. lol I still have to read that book. So &quot;How to be good&quot; is good? And how about &quot;The pleasures and sorrows of work&quot;?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha. You know I was born on the same day at Kerouac. lol I still have to read that book. So &#8220;How to be good&#8221; is good? And how about &#8220;The pleasures and sorrows of work&#8221;?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Books for the Year by theboywonder.co.uk &#187; Blog Archive &#187; New Year&#8217;s Resolutions for 2010 - &#8230; ok, well at least I&#39;m trying.</title>
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		<dc:creator>theboywonder.co.uk &#187; Blog Archive &#187; New Year&#8217;s Resolutions for 2010 - &#8230; ok, well at least I&#39;m trying.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 12:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Read a book a month. [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ulia and Rai. by Mia</title>
		<link>http://theboywonder.co.uk/2008/02/03/ulia-and-rai/comment-page-1/#comment-21439</link>
		<dc:creator>Mia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 11:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin wrote &quot;I wonder if it’s possible that someone it didn’t work out with previously, could be suitable in another period in your life?&quot;  Oh, yes. My favourite story of this is a woman I know who clicked truly, madly &amp; deeply with a guy she met at a conference. They talked non-stop and seemed to know each other intimately already - but he was married and had kids. He actually wanted to have a relationship with this new woman anyway (which set my alarm bells ringing, but whatever) - part of his justification was that he was virtually separated from his wife already - but she said &quot;no way. But if you ever find yourself single, get in touch.&quot;  

She didn&#039;t hear from him again - until 13 years later. That&#039;s how long it had taken him to separate from his wife - probably something to do with the kids being old enough to handle a divorce, in his eyes. It was as if they&#039;d met yesterday, they got married fairly quickly and have now lived together happily for 10 years... 

Personally though I find it dangerous to hold on to hope that something will work out in future. If you&#039;ve just broken up it&#039;s comforting, but holding on to an idea closes you to other options. Again, if someone&#039;s really right for you, whether you&#039;ve met them already or not, they will cross your path (again). You sort of have to trust fate : )  

bah. the fairy tales. i&#039;m writing an anti-fairy-tale manifesto at the moment... i swear there is something even better than fairy tales. 

hey, good luck everyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin wrote &#8220;I wonder if it’s possible that someone it didn’t work out with previously, could be suitable in another period in your life?&#8221;  Oh, yes. My favourite story of this is a woman I know who clicked truly, madly &amp; deeply with a guy she met at a conference. They talked non-stop and seemed to know each other intimately already &#8211; but he was married and had kids. He actually wanted to have a relationship with this new woman anyway (which set my alarm bells ringing, but whatever) &#8211; part of his justification was that he was virtually separated from his wife already &#8211; but she said &#8220;no way. But if you ever find yourself single, get in touch.&#8221;  </p>
<p>She didn&#8217;t hear from him again &#8211; until 13 years later. That&#8217;s how long it had taken him to separate from his wife &#8211; probably something to do with the kids being old enough to handle a divorce, in his eyes. It was as if they&#8217;d met yesterday, they got married fairly quickly and have now lived together happily for 10 years&#8230; </p>
<p>Personally though I find it dangerous to hold on to hope that something will work out in future. If you&#8217;ve just broken up it&#8217;s comforting, but holding on to an idea closes you to other options. Again, if someone&#8217;s really right for you, whether you&#8217;ve met them already or not, they will cross your path (again). You sort of have to trust fate : )  </p>
<p>bah. the fairy tales. i&#8217;m writing an anti-fairy-tale manifesto at the moment&#8230; i swear there is something even better than fairy tales. </p>
<p>hey, good luck everyone.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ulia and Rai. by Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 17:55:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I&#039;ve finally gotten around to replying!

@Mia: Sage advice from her but I can empathise entirely with hating to hear it! Personally I blame romantic movies and literature for imbuing me with such expectations (ok, only slightly). A case of perhaps knowing one thing, but feeling another from time to time? I am a lot less like this than I used to be however. I guess we have to keep such wisdom in the forefront of our minds in order to live in line with it.

@Oyster: Agreeing with Mia here. Even from the first date I think you know deep down whether it is worth taking further (you may even have &lt;a href=&quot;http://theboywonder.co.uk/2003/09/16/the-spark/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;the spark&lt;/a&gt; if you&#039;re lucky). It wouldn&#039;t really feel right on a deeper level if those imperfections (&quot;flaws&quot;) happened to contradict some of your core values. For example, you&#039;re ambitious but the guy is quite the opposite. You&#039;re energetic and like to get out, but the guy is lazy and likes to stay at home all the time. It seems to me that it&#039;s important to know yourself well enough to know what you need in a relationship (similar to what Mia said - trust your intuition). Perhaps if you&#039;re hoping someone can change significantly, you may &lt;strong&gt;already&lt;/strong&gt; be settling for less?

I find it interesting that Mia mentioned the &quot;it can&#039;t have been the right person &lt;strong&gt;or&lt;/strong&gt; time for you&quot;. I wonder if it&#039;s possible that someone it didn&#039;t work out with previously, could be suitable in another period in your life? Having seen relationships fail over seemingly long distance alone, I suppose so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I&#8217;ve finally gotten around to replying!</p>
<p>@Mia: Sage advice from her but I can empathise entirely with hating to hear it! Personally I blame romantic movies and literature for imbuing me with such expectations (ok, only slightly). A case of perhaps knowing one thing, but feeling another from time to time? I am a lot less like this than I used to be however. I guess we have to keep such wisdom in the forefront of our minds in order to live in line with it.</p>
<p>@Oyster: Agreeing with Mia here. Even from the first date I think you know deep down whether it is worth taking further (you may even have <a href="http://theboywonder.co.uk/2003/09/16/the-spark/" rel="nofollow">the spark</a> if you&#8217;re lucky). It wouldn&#8217;t really feel right on a deeper level if those imperfections (&#8220;flaws&#8221;) happened to contradict some of your core values. For example, you&#8217;re ambitious but the guy is quite the opposite. You&#8217;re energetic and like to get out, but the guy is lazy and likes to stay at home all the time. It seems to me that it&#8217;s important to know yourself well enough to know what you need in a relationship (similar to what Mia said &#8211; trust your intuition). Perhaps if you&#8217;re hoping someone can change significantly, you may <strong>already</strong> be settling for less?</p>
<p>I find it interesting that Mia mentioned the &#8220;it can&#8217;t have been the right person <strong>or</strong> time for you&#8221;. I wonder if it&#8217;s possible that someone it didn&#8217;t work out with previously, could be suitable in another period in your life? Having seen relationships fail over seemingly long distance alone, I suppose so.</p>
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